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You know, most guys assume that they are at a disadvantage because they don’t have enough experience with women, or they think that they lack the “game” to approach a woman and actually get somewhere with her. Many times, though, that can BE an advantage, because you are in a much better position to learn what works and not be stuck on some method or technique that has been a failure since the high school days.

Seriously, there is a common thought that what works on a 18 year old girl is going to work on a 25 year old woman, and that is not really true at all. In that 7 year stretch, even an average looking woman has probably been approached a couple of hundred times. So, she is used to the same old, same old that guys use as game, and YOU can have a much more unique approach.

Here are some tips on how to approach women, even if you have no game at all:

1. Have a conversation starter already in mind.

This is what the pick up line is meant to be for, but really, having something more than just a generic line will do you a lot better. Like I said, a woman has probably been approached quite a bit and heard dozens or generic lines, so she knows how to handle this kind of an approach. An original conversation starter will make her look at you differently and that can be a very good sign.

2. You need to go in for the laughs right away.

Let’s say that you are in a bar or club on a Friday night. Chances are, she was at work all day long and just like your job, it SUCKED. So, she is in need of a good laugh. This can make you seem like you are just the kind of guy that she was hoping to meet, and that can make her a lot more OPEN to getting to know you.

3. You have to toss in some strategic flirting here and there.

You can make a great impression on a woman, have a great approach, make her laugh, and STILL not get anything more than just a conversation. This is why you have to turn on the flirting and generate some HEAT with her. Otherwise, you are a cool guy that she likes to talk to, but she just does not feel “that way” about you. Ever hear that one before?

The art of approaching women does not come naturally. You have to learn the right techniques to attract women and how to use them to your advantage when you are making your approach. After all, you might only end up with one shot at getting to impress her, so you better make sure that you do it right!

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Studying at the university in the U.S.A, I noticed that beside the difference in language, American students had differences that were very obvious to me in one thing: they didn’t let each other copy papers and they didn’t do each other’s assignments. My Russian mentality couldn’t grasp why.

Before I came to the USA and became a Russian wife, life was a little different. Being a fiance in a different country taught me a lot. For instance when I was at school in Russia it was “natural” for students to whisper test answers to each other and pass the cheat sheets along. It was Russian mentality, I could not imagine my friend not helping me with my physics tests. He was good at it, I was terrible and since we were friends it was not even discussed that he should help me. I, on the other hand, was better in languages, so I wrote a number of compositions and checked quite a few papers for him.

With how I grew up in Russia, I did not feel I was doing anything wrong. I knew that if after graduation he would need to write a cover letter or even a love letter to his girlfriend, I will be always there to help him. The same way I knew he would help me with math or physics.

I didn’t have any friends (the way I define friend) at the U.S. school, but I noticed that people who claimed to be the best buddies didn’t copy each others papers and didn’t do each other’s homework.

Those were the times that I did not really understand how American culture worked, so I couldn’t understand why friends don’t help friends. Now that I understand more (or at least I like to think so), it makes sense to me. In American culture you have to rely on your own abilities and strength, so if you don’t learn how to write a paper properly, your classmate friends are not going to do it for you later in life. They may for a price or for some type of favor in exchange, but they are not going to do your work for you just because you are their friend. Even if they are really good at what needs to be done.

Russian friendships are based on a lifetime of bonding that never ends. It takes months or even years for Russians to become friends, but when they do, they become like a family. A friend is not the same as a drinking or a dinner buddy you meet once a month and discuss a new brand of chips with. A friend is someone who will lend you money when you need it; listen to your problems and let you pour out your soul. A friend is someone who will do anything for you, but who also expects you to be there for them no matter what.

It is extremely rare to see a Russian going to a psychologists or psychiatrists, because they have friends to talk to and to help them solve their problems.

If by chance you find yourself stuck at an airport terminal with no way home, and your close friend has a car, he or she will be happy to help you out and I really mean “happy” when I say it. When we went to Russia for the first time, we needed a ride from the airport to the city where I used to live. I didn’t want to bother anyone and I got Americanized a bit, so we just hired someone to take us home. When my Russian friends, a married couple whom I haven’t seen in person for more than 2 years, found out about it, they got really offended. “Why didn’t you call us?” the guy said. ”You don’t trust us or something?” No, they wouldn’t have accepted any money and I doubt they would even let us pay for gas. They were (and are) just true friends.

Now to compare, my spouse was on a business trip and I needed help fixing a parking light (I wrecked it by accident in our backyard). I called him; he called his friend of 10 years (his best friend by the way) and asked him to come over and take a look. The friend (who was 5 minutes away) came with some red tape and put it on my light bulb (which was not damaged by the way). It took him less than 3 minutes. I (“jokingly”) told him that I don’t have any cash, so I can’t pay him right away. He said: “No worries, when your hubby gets home he can pay me back by taking me out for dinner”. And to my surprise, that’s what happened, so the 20 cents which probably was the cost of the piece of tape and 3 minutes of time cost us 20 bucks.

Now, I am not making a judgment on what is better between the American and Russian way, but things are certainly different and it may be difficult for people from both cultures to make friends and maintain friendships. Finding a balance takes time and effort, but I believe that it is possible. Don’t push your Russian wife or fiance to make friends, because it is not as easy for her as it may seem and don’t be jealous or suspicious if she calls her friends often and tells you how much she misses them. Time will help her with both.

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